She is trouble but I need her

They can't be together and can't be apart (PICMODELLED)

One minute we’re madly in love. The next we’re ripping each other’s heads off.

When we have sex, the action is unbridled and raw. We scream, we scratch and we orgasm like wild animals.

But when we fight it’s like World War Three. We’re vicious, spiteful and cruel.

We’re both extremely physical, passionate people. We live hard and love to the full.

I slag her off all the time for being an infuriating, impossible cow. But the minute someone else dares to criticise her, I fly to her defence like a tiger.

Recently my mum meekly suggested that my girl is a “bit of a handful” and I bit her head off.

I ordered her to apologise and felt terrible afterwards because the truth of the matter is that my girl and I aren’t even together at the moment.

We’re on yet another of our breaks after a jealous row at a party.

She accused me of flirting with another girl and threw a drink down my trousers.

I retaliated by lighting up a cigarette, which she hates, blowing smoke in her face and telling her that she’s fat.

She stormed off and snogged another man, while I went to a hotel with a girl I picked up in a bar. Yet I miss her. I long for her in my bed again.

Friends warn me that she’s talking about me too. We’re in an impossible situation.

People are always telling us to keep away from each other. My brother once urged me to move to Australia in order to wash her out of my hair forever.

But she’s my addiction and my biggest weakness.JANE SAYS: The fatal attraction you and your on/off girlfriend have for each other is something that you need to address as adults.

As I see it, you have two choices. You either accept that the two of you are going to be playing this game of emotional tennis forever.
Or you step back and finally accept that your relationship is highly toxic and destructive.
The highs are too high and the lows are diabolical.
Obviously, I’ve got my sensible head on and I’m going to suggest that you change your number, tell your mutual friends that you don’t wish to hear any more about her and move on.
But it’s your life and you have to do what you can.
The problem is that no other woman is ever going to match up to your lover in terms of passion, excitement or mystery.
But I’m rather inclined to think that’s a good thing, because who can keep up this level of madness forever?
You say that your lover is intoxicating, but does she actually make you happy?
Are you living the best life you can when your emotions are all over the place for most of the time?
What about your emotional stability, your family, your job and your friends?
She sounds like a bad habit that needs to be broken.